Everything Has It's Purpose

I believe everything happens for a definite purpose. I might say I grew up in
an unideal family. My parents are separated almost 5 yrs ago, currently
having their own lives apart. Well I manage to get in touch with both of them,
anyway, they're still my parents and no one can ever change that.

It was just last year when my dad introduced a girl to us. It was quite
surprising finding out that she's five years younger than me! I'm
even uncertain how I should call her. It was a bit awkward finding out the he
already replaced my mom, but we never know they have their own reasons
why things happen. Maybe its better for them to be distant with each other rather
than being together without any love at all. I admit at times I do have grudge
against him, I may consider that he is not an ideal dad whenever I look way
back in my childhood. But people do change, sometimes it all happens after
experiencing difficulties and conflicts. He's now better than what he was before.
The grudge I felt before was replaced with love and understanding and it was
indeed a great relief.

Me and my siblings have our own lives now and what we are now?,
we owe it all to our parents. Even our lives wasn't that perfect, we all grew
up with respect, discipline, diligence and love. And I'm proud of how we became.
Having an imperfect family doesn't mean you're bound to live an entire
life imperfectly. It all depends on seeking the right decisions,
understanding circumstances, and wisdom granted from the One above.